Direct Perception

Now pretty much generally conceded, but nowhere much talked about, is the fact that Masculinity (whatever it is) and Femininity (whatever) are directly perceivable (See 'Gaydar' 2/28/08).  It's something that every gay man experiences:  How many, many times before I went off to San Francisco and at last found all the sex I wanted whenever I wanted it with other butch young men, did I, too horny and needy, go ahead and have-sex-anyway with women trapped in men's bodies!   Hoping at least that if I fucked them on their stomachs I wouldn't be able to see the nauseating, cloying, pathetic female things they were (inside).  It never worked.  I always felt afterwards like a zoophile:  You've fucked your ewe, bitch, mare, or cow--now what do you say to her?