But how is it, the more they count the number of gay men in the world, the (more absurdly) fewer they find them?

After all, Alfred Kinsey, somehow, seems to have figured it about right: 15% of men are gay, and about 5% of women are Lesbians.  Add them together (though they're nothing alike) and divide by two, and you get 10%--the approximate proportion of all major standard deviances among humans, including left-handedness, color-blindness and alcoholism.  About ten times as many as modern science seems to be able to come up with by trying to count them directly.  What is the deal with modern science and its counting methods?  

How many "Good" Roman Emperors were gay?  Well, all except Augustus, Claudius, Caligula, Antoninus Pius and Marcus Aurelius--and maybe Nero and Domitian (who were not, of course, Good).  That's way more than half. And nowadays they are finding that, without exactly being or thinking of themselves as gay, at least 10% of men, who consider themselves straight, only, or primarily, have sex with other men; while at least 20% of men prefer watching gay male to heterosexual pornography.  And I hate to tell you guys,  that, whatever "queer theorists" (postmodern Lesbians and other social constructionists) may tell you, it does matter, if you're a male, with a penis, what you like to watch:  You are what you like to watch.